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Friday 4 July, 2008
 19:08 | 25/Jan/2008 |  5 Comment(s)
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Love Marriage Vrs. Arranged Marriage

Marriage is an important part of the life of human beings. It marks the beginning of a fresh conjugal life where the husband and the wife vows to spend the remaining part of their life witheach other.They make promises to have faith in each other and to be side-by-side to share joy and sorrows whatever comes. The success of married life solely depends upon love and dedicatrion of the husband and wife towards one another.
Since earlier times, arranged marriage has been the most preferred by the parents opf the boy or the girl because in this form of marriage,they get a chance to make the best selection of life partner for their wards.Almost all the parents in the world share special dreams for the wedding of their wards which they do fulfill by negotiaying for the wedding of their wards.But these days, the other form of marriage,popularly known as Love marriage, has become more preferred by the youths of today.Here they get chance of finding their soul mates of their own choice.Today the young boys and girls have become more sensitive towards their own choice as far as their life is concerned.Their reason behind this lies in the fact that they have the full right to have their life partners acoording to their likings and dislikings.And to some extent, that reason is acceptable as well.
But the question is which form of marriage is more safe and acceptable? As far as safety is concerned, the arranged marriage seems to be safer as because the parents make all sorts of investigation before finalizing the relationship for their wards. It reduces the possibilitie of having a fake relationship.This type of a marriage gets the required recognition from the society as well as they becon\me a part of the wedding celebration. On the other hand, the loving duo are sometime unable to find out the shortcomings of their lover and beloved.This gives birth to several problems later on and due to these problems the whole family of both the husband and the wife have to suffer a lot.But it is equally true that if the lovers are cautious about their self in a relationship like this, they can make a better soul mate for themselves.
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